Some people are naturally resilient and look at
problems as challenges to be overcome. Some people even see adversity as an
opportunity to excel. This attitude is the essence of stoicism. That does not
mean we hide or deny our emotions, as the popular understanding of the word
“stoic” might suggest. Instead, our feelings follow our recognition
that there is simply no point in panicking over aspects of our situation that
are out of our control and that it made a lot of sense to focus on what we
could control. So we will take control of our emotions before they contain us.
I recognize that some people have some skills and others who do not.
Through several battles and POW cases, the US
Army has learned that the thinking skills that lead to resilience can be
taught. Specifically, the US Army has developed the “Comprehensive Soldier
Fitness,” which aims to introduce 1.1 million US Army soldiers those
thinking skills that will upgrade their resilience and take control of their
emotions by using the same philosophical ideas and techniques that Athenians,
Spartans, Macedonians, and Romans used to cope with their grueling campaigns,
at the dawn of western civilization. In other words, the US Army is trying to
raise a generation of resilient philosopher warriors.
Is it all down to your thoughts?
Rhonda Cornum, a US flight surgeon, told a
group of troops in 2010: “I approached every problem I encountered,
whether it was failing an exam or a disease or getting showdown and shot up the
same way: I would fix what I could fix and I wouldn’t complain about what I
couldn’t.” Cornum doesn’t think of herself as a Stoic, but the technique
she practices and teaches was best described by a Roman Stoic philosopher in
the 2nd century called Epictetus.
According to Epictetus, there is a list of
things that are not in our control, such as our body, parents, co-workers, the
weather, the economy, the past, the future, and the fact that we are going to
die. However, Epictetus draws up another list of things in our control, such as
our beliefs. And that’s it. This approach may seem like a minimal field of
control. And yet this tiny window is the basis for human freedom, autonomy, and
sovereignty. According to Epictetus, we must learn to exercise our power over
Zone 1 – our thoughts and beliefs. That is our sovereign domain. In Zone 1, we
are the king if we exercise our sovereignty. We always have a choice of what to
think and believe. The Stoics insisted that no one can force us to accept
something against our will. No one can brainwash us if we know how to resist
them. Epictetus said, “The rubber of your free will does not exist.”
However, we must accept that we have no sovereignty over Zone 2 – external
events. We only have limited control over what happens in the world. We have to
admit this. Otherwise, we will be angry, afraid, and miserable for most of our
life.
Georgios Ardavanis – 04/05/2023